Showing posts with label inspirational listening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspirational listening. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Illusions Of "Control" and "Knowledge" -- Daily Inspirations


……..the human repression is able to have a remedy. All it takes is having the control of it…….. and to know…….. Voltaire

“Control” and “know” are interesting concepts in modern and non-modern thought. They assume that we and our brains have abilities and freedoms that contradict severely the history of the disease of being human.

If we have control – if we chose – why would we choose to suffer and die horrible lives – or survive the experience under the anesthesia of blinding distractions and mental obsessions? Why would we inflict such incredible pain on ourselves by harming others? We are one – I cannot hurt you without destroying me.

The concept that humans can somehow achieve control over themselves and their lives and outcomes is really unsupportable by observable human experience.

What the masters of sleight of hand, and mirrors and fog try to use to confuse and shame us is the periodic ability of humans and “heroes” to seemingly rise above instinct and disease to do and become the extraordinary – or ordinary. Because the brain does not always reject desirable behavior or action does not prove that if we try hard enough, we can achieve control. Humans can fly – if they have a plane or jet pack. Otherwise, they are ground dwellers.

And some days we manage to be unconscious enough to achieve the illusions of happiness, when really our brain has simply suppressed our ability to feel pain.

If we have control, we should never have to be unhappy, sad, or disappointed again. Show me someone for whom this is true – who is emotionally conscious and not medicated by some drug or outcome.

“Know” – a human derivative of the illusion of “control”. Knowledge is the creation of the cerebral functions of the brains neuroprocessor – the cerebral cortex. It is believed by the brain that what it perceives, it knows as facts, and understands, and therefore it is able to control behavior, reactions, and outcomes. The problem is that the cerebral cortex operates at the “pleasure” or pain of the primitive part of the brain. So it “knows” only what it is allowed to know. The primitive brain automatically and involuntarily controls the operations of the brain in order to maintain stability. We know nothing – we only have perceptions – and reactions – that are controlled without our conscious input into their occurrence.

Hence, the power and significance of the First Step of the Twelve Steps: “We admitted that we were powerless – that our lives had become unmanageable.” We cannot control or know anything.

When we truly experience this truth, and connect with a higher Presence (Step Two), we no longer need to know or control – we are restored to a “sanity” – an emotional balance and a spiritual awakening – that no longer requires knowing or controlling – just the consistent maintenance of an improving conscious intimate contact with Them. The rest becomes history – and Presence.

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Stopping the Pain -- With Daily Inspirations


I have found the paradox,
that if you love until it hurts,
there can be no more hurt,
only more love.

Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa devoted her life to the dying and abandoned of Calcutta, India. What she sacrificed to be who she was had to have hurt tremendously on a human level. Yet what her words describe as her experience, strength, and hope, is that there is an overriding payoff for caring about others. I hear in her voice the impression that what active love and caring offers cannot be found any other way.

We can’t all love in such dramatic ways as she did, but we can love with similar intensities.

A spiritual person was asked by a lame beggar for money outside a temple. The spiritual person replied, “Silver and gold have I none, but such as I have, give I thee…” And as he lifted the man up, the lame man walked.

Love and caring is about what do I have, and what do others need. I have offered people that I cared about what I had and they have at times refused my gifts. To receive others love actually requires sometimes something more than need. The benefit of helping the poor and dying is that typically they are more willing to accept whatever is offered.

Ultimately the truest gifts of love are not material or financial. They are affirming and consistent presence – smiles, listening, attention, unconditional acceptance and admiration – the same gifts that my higher Presence gives me every day.

Life is so full of distractions that I can become lost in the details. And love involves exiting the details of life and becoming focused on others – for my own spiritual strength. They possess the hidden secrets to life, and as I have loved them, I have found my truest and best selves -- and joys that my human brain could not understand orcomprehend. My brain could only observe in puzzled awe.

Finding daily inspirations involves maintaining a clearness of focus that comes from consistent inspirational listening -- to inspirational words, readings, quotes, and to other people’s voices -- reminding us of the timeless Unseen Presence, who can only be experienced in intimate closeness – which begins in being present for others.